When you think of Holi, vibrant images come to mind—clouds of colour, contagious laughter, and a carefree spirit that seems to bring everyone together. But amid the euphoria, an important message often gets lost: Consent is not optional, even during festivals.
“Bura Na Mano Holi Hai” — But At What Cost?
The popular phrase “Bura na mano, Holi hai” (Don’t mind, it’s Holi) has long been used to justify actions that cross personal boundaries. From smearing colours on unwilling participants to unwanted touching or water balloons thrown at strangers, the phrase has become a cover for behaviour that, under any other circumstance, would be considered unacceptable.
This year, actress Rhea Chakraborty made a bold statement by wearing a T-shirt that read, “Bura na maano Holi hai, consent lena bhi zaroori hai” (Don’t mind, it’s Holi—but consent is still necessary). Her message hits home, especially as Holi 2025 falls within Women’s History Month, a time that celebrates women’s rights, voices, and agency.
Celebration Doesn’t Cancel Consent
Festivals are meant to bring joy, but joy should be mutual, inclusive, and respectful. Just because Holi is known for being wild and free doesn’t mean social etiquette disappears. Respecting someone’s personal space, their “no,” and their comfort level is the bare minimum we owe each other.
Holi is not just about colours—it's about togetherness, joy, and shared experiences. A celebration that ignores someone’s discomfort or boundaries defeats its very purpose. Enthusiasm is welcome, but only when it's consensual and kind.
Respectful Holi: A New Celebration Culture
Let this year be the one where we rewrite old narratives. Here’s how we can celebrate Holi more responsibly:
- Ask Before You Colour: A simple “May I?” goes a long way.
- Watch Body Language: Not everyone is comfortable with physical contact.
- Be Mindful in Public Spaces: Just because someone is outside doesn’t mean they’re inviting colour.
- Educate Younger Generations: Instill the value of consent in festive interactions early on.
Colour the World, But Kindly
As we gear up to celebrate Holi 2025, let’s ensure our joy isn’t at someone else’s expense. With the energy of Women’s History Month behind us, it’s the perfect time to embrace a more inclusive, respectful version of Holi—one where colour and consent go hand in hand.
Let’s celebrate with heart, not just hues.
