Dating has long been regarded as a solo activity, but that perception is changing with Gen Z shaking things up. This time, they are inviting their friends.
A Tinder survey recently found that mentions of 'double dates' in profile bios have skyrocketed 65% in India for women. Dating as we once understood it is no longer, and it appears that it is increasingly a social experience with friends.
Also of note, double dates are growing in popularity with our surveyed users and others, particularly for 18–25-year-olds. In all, 37% of people in this range have engaged in double dating, and another 66% said they would consider it.
This points to a shift in modern relationships from a romantic dating experience toward a social and group experience where connections feel more comfortable. For many, dating alongside a friend provides a sense of safety, social fun, and insight into dating relationships with less pressure.
It's not only the act of bringing friends on dates but also that technology is supporting this process. For example, via group chats during a double date, the likelihood of a pair actually meeting up in real life increased seven times.
Not only was that helpful in coordinating a meetup, it added fun into the date and lightened up the variables involved. Furthermore, it takes pressure off of the awkwardness felt with two people going on a more traditional one-on-one date.
Having a double date may seem out of the ordinary, but what many believe is it adds a level of fun and even the depth of the experience. With another couple around, the focus of the interaction is less intense, so both people feel less pressure to be self conscious and intellectual.
It's much easier to see if there is chemistry with another human if they are not hyper-focused on each individual in a customary setting. Also, when your bestie is with you, you instantly have someone you trust to break the ice and safe guard you from being too robotic in dating or interacting with strangers.
Now the question is, would you go on a double date? Or are you someone who prefers the traditional one-on-one? Double dating is on the rise, but it is not going to be for everyone. People are still often going to value the intimacy and the undivided attention that is afforded in a one-on-one date.
But just as people see dating as a potential social activity rather than a one-on-one experience, they are demonstrating an inclination like Gen Z to consider how connections can form.
Whatever group you are in, whether it is the 37% that has tried double dating, or the 66% that are open to it, dating is no longer a one-on-one activity.
The rise of double dates, group chats and social couple gatherings are making dating a fun and exciting experience that can shape even the future of dating. So, the next time your planning a date, consider asking a friend if they want to join for the fun, it could very well change how you meet and connect with someone.